During our project we were talking about the marriage, having children, and building family with 18-24 years participants. The main issue the society, national traditions, religion and the impact of the economic and the social environment for willingness of young people to bulid family and have children. We looked back at previous generations, we compareed the current situation in the participating countries. We used non formal methods and teamwork to deal with these different topics. We did not want to push them to getting married we just wanted to show them what are the effects of the busy lifestyle, the modern society or career orientation to the youth and their future family plans. The program also provided the opportunity to get to know in the fun way the marriage traditions of other countries and to participated the celebrations of other countries. The program took place in Hajdúnánás. The participants (8 per group from Italy, Poland, Romania, Hungary , 7 from Portugal, total 39 participants) came from 5 countries to took part in the exchange for 8 days to gained useful knowledge, experiences and make friendships.